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We both masturbate, but she hates that I do.

Recently my girlfriend and I have become more sexually active. We've agreed not to have intercourse, but to do everything else. Along with our discussions came the issue of masturbation. We both do it,...

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Dealing with Date Rape & Abuse

Okay, this happened to me a few months ago but it's been really bothering me. I was dating a guy for a while and when we started dating, I told him I didn't want to do anything sexual till I was 18. He...

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I'm not sure I can live with herpes

I am currently living with my boyfriend (who is considerably older than I am) and he gave me genital herpes. He has supported me through the initial outbreak (which was terrifying, painful, and...

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The hormones made me do it?

Why do I have hormones, and why do they make me give into temptation?read The answer | ask your own

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Should I stay or should I go? My boyfriend disclosed that he has sexually...

I am in an extremely confused state right now. I'm almost in the state of breaking down too and I just cannot accept the irresponsible fact that my boyfriend has raped a family member and a...

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Are we addicted to sex?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. We had sex after the 1st month because we felt that special connection with each other. Ever since the first time with him, I keep wanting...

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Sex Education Is A Political Act.

This guest post from Arvan at SexGenderBody is part of a blog carnival to raise awareness and funding for Scarleteen.In terms of group politics - there are large groups of people who are fighting to...

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Whose Vagina Is It, Anyway?

I'm a 32 year old woman being driven up the wall by my fiance always telling me he can tell I'm playing with my toys when he's at work because I'm loose that day. I swear to him up and down that I...

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I worry that because I'm a man, I am going to sexually abuse someone.

My mom was a victim of incest as a girl and has used it to invalidate my emotions. I blame the incest, not my mom, but it still hurts. But I can't help but feel like I, as a man, am dirty to be sexual....

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Lions and Tigers and Orgasms, Oh My! When Orgasm Seems Scary.

I'm a girl and I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. I'm 18 and he's my first boyfriend. We've never had sex (he has had it before) but we've done other things. I have a problem though, I'm really...

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On a Boyfriend's Porn, Anger, Healing & Finding the Way to the Healthy & Whole

This may get a bit vivid. Be warned. I have a twisted sexual history. After being molested at age 5 and again at 14 I somehow allowed myself to get taken advantage of and used in regards to sex. It...

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The Simple and Underrated Art of Washing Your Hands

Author:  Heather Corinna Introduction:  Handwashing, seriously? Yep, handwashing. Seriously. (Well, mostly seriously.) Here's how to do it and why it's so important to do. I know a thing or twelve...

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Why did I wind up in dating abuse?

I am from a country where dating is taboo. I was not in a relationship till my early twenties. The following may be hard to understand but I need to talk about it and know why I let this happen to me....

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He says what I wear is slutty: what should I do?

My boyfriend sometimes tells me what I wear is "slutty." I've tried to explain to him that I find this possessive, sexist and objectifying but he can't understand why. When I give up on that argument...

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I liked masturbating, but then I felt really gross about it. What now?

I'm 13 years old. I've had an interest in sex since I was 10. So when I heard about masturbation for women, I was all for it. When I tried it, it felt great. But after words, I felt sick to look at my...

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Words Mean Things. Specific things.

Just a brief request from us to the world-at-large, primarily with the aim of making our users lives a little easier. Secondarily, it'd also make the lives of those of us who work to help them daily in...

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Parental Controls

I have been in a monogamousrelationship with someone my age for two years. We have been sexually active for a year now. My parents are religious and conservative, and believe strongly that there is no...

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Oh My God! Christonormativity and Sexual Politics

Public spotlight has focused intently on reproductive justice lately: in the campaigns of presidential hopefuls, in the media, and in the procedings of the U.S. legistlature. Debates have culminated...

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Rebel Well: for those in abuse, or who are homeless, transient or in the system

Rebel Well: a Starter Survival Guide to a Trumped America for Teens and Emerging Adults: help and guidance for when someone or something in your life is unsafe or insecure.

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Sex Education Is A Political Act.

This guest post from Arvan at SexGenderBody is part of a blog carnival to raise awareness and funding for Scarleteen.In terms of group politics - there are large groups of people who are fighting to...

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